We are an in shape couple happily married 26 or so years that enjoy open style dancing and making like minded friends. We also enjoy making friends that like to hang outside of the club and don't think every meeting is a playtime. We have been around the lifestyle for about 9-10 years and found we enjoy the mindset of it's participants more so then our local bar/dance club. We have fun hanging out with each other as much as being with friends, that's why "hooking up" is not as important to us as having fun.