we love the open swinging and group swinging...we also enjoy meeting up with a single female for playtime for him and a male for me...he likes to look,  watch, participate and especially be seen...i like to look, watch and participate...the more in the group the better we enjoy it... we both like this lifestyle as it makes our relationship more open and secure, and we also just love the fun we have with other people who like the same lifestyle..... we are an older couple than most i see on here...but we are young in mind and spirit...and love people..we are and D/D free,and looking for the same...we are a little bit new at this type of lifestyle.