We are a couple in our 40's who enjoy having fun - we've been swingers since our 20's and like soft sensual play. She loves girls and spends most of her time with girls, but we will do a full swap with a reserved couple who isn't too pushy or brass. We are not into talking dirty, rude or nasty - we are just laid back, relaxed and like to let it come slow and sensual.

Our review after one visit:

We didn't really enjoy Secrets club, it's not like the clubs in the north - the music wasn't really easy to dance to, more for extremely young "bangers/thugs" not a sensual, sexy club - just more for the young crowd i think. Not many people danced, the floor was mostly empty. It seemed as if some of the girls were being paid to be there, but were not friendly or fun. Half of the people seemed too embarrased to actually talk to each other or too shy and no games to get people involved. Pretty in Pink party? no one was in Pink. Wear what you want, we saw all kinds. It may be different on a special event/holiday night, but we won't visit again - looking for a club with more mainstream music (not rap) some 90's music or at least music everyday people recognize and people who aren't too scared to talk to each other. If you go, take a few couples with you and if you like to dance to 80's music, typical swinger club music (Stroke it - haha) dance before you go! The rooms are fairly cool, the play areas are nice and the group shower would be fun...but geared to a young crowd. Perhaps an 80's night would be a good idea for them to plan.