Someone at a meet & greet asked us what we considered our "status" to be. When we described it, they said..."doesn't sound like full or soft swap to us...more like 'lifestyle friendly'". Well, they hit the nail on the head!

We love visiting LS clubs and letting off some steam. Although we used to be a little intimidated when we visited LS clubs (because it seemed like so many people already knew each other and we knew almost nobody!), we have since gathered the nerve to start conversations, and have ended up meeting so many wonderful couples. This may sound a little strange...but these new (sexy but platonic) friendships are what we love most about this lifestyle!

Here's a little more info about us:

1. We are a professional couple --teacher and nurse.
2. Seems like 95% of our time is spent working...we're trying to be better about taking time off to enjoy ourselves
3. Most of our friends would say that as a couple we are easy-going, but relatively cautious and conservative (not politically, just when it comes to safety and health).
4. J is relatively petite and seems to be getting fitter as we grow older! A is on the slim side, though he wants to get as fit as J!
5. We're not the most disciplined when it comes to exercising, but we do at least once or twice a week, and expect our LS friends to be at about the same fitness level.
6. We are both straight. But J is..."bi-friendly" (is that an actual term?) A loves watching her on the dance floor with another woman!

We're just taking this really slow and easy. We enjoy being around other like-minded couples, but we don't play with them. We love sexual intimacy, but we’re not interested in swapping right now. Friendships, dancing, flirting, voyeurism...that's about as much as we want in the lifestyle right now. Lifestyle Friendly!